I am level 13,almost 14, I want to focus on melee fighting. Can someone tell me the clothes and stats and possibly skills i should get, and how to allocate them.

First you need to decide what martial art you are going to do and start making your way down that tree. You can choose Kung Fu, Karate or Aikido. The attribute you should be focusing on mainly is perception but also spend some of the points on other attributes if you don't always want to be ma. Any clothing that upgrades melee damage, melee combat tactics and perception would be suitable for you.