Hi everyone!
I'm new as well...started playing about a month ago.
I think it all comes down to what you make of the game. I've been having lots of fun with people from ET, TB, my family Lords of War, other people from Zion, and also machine people like tornadic whom I sometimes run archives with and stuff like that. I know many players that started out around the same time as I did: vericon, mustachio, tyler, diesel, rivafaith...etc who are all in the 20-30 lvl range already.
To all new redpills out there, the best way to enjoy the game in my opinion is to take the first step. Get to know other players, ask them if you can join them for missions, farming etc, ask questions, and try to join a faction that goes with your interests (rp for example, etc) Lots of players like thepiggy, PS1ON, Heero237, Kloren, drkmagic, click, Haxadec, and others will be glad to help you lvl and give you good advice. Remember: if you just sit around Mara C waiting for the fun to "happen" then you won't really enjoy the game. Add people to your buddy list!!! Get involved!
...and if you happen to be in Recursion----->PinkPixie always down to kill stuff and hang out 
For Zion!
Lords of War~Pink