After spending literally 4 hrs trying to get online with a buddy I realized this game is not worth the stress. One of us would sign on and load the update fine and the other would get an error message that they couldn't connect to the update server. We were extremely frustrated as this is the only rpg we could play together from the safety of our own homes. After calling user help for 45 minutes it somehow worked and we were both online. Now the best part comes: Starting a game! One of us hosted the other joined we started the game and whoever joined got booted every single time. We read the forums and did everything we found and still nothing worked. Then we tried to go return it at walmart and got screwed there as well.
My thoughts and feelings to whoever plays or is thinking of playing this game. Why did you waste the money on a game that doesn't even allow you the easy option of playing the game. There is way to much stress to try and play online that in the end even if it did work you won't want to play it anyway. Stay very far away from the idea of buying this or you gaurentee yourself getting screwed out of $42 bucks. This game is by far the worst game I have ever tried to play because of all the problems I had loading it.
DONT BUY THIS GAME.